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Primal Need Five: Love WITH Sexuality
The final primal need is that of Love and Sexuality or, to be more precise, Love with Sexuality. (The first part of this series is here: Preventing Our Children From Developing Demons (And Healing Our Own).) Those people who … Continue reading
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Tagged aline lapierre, bravado, healing developmental trauma, laurence heller, love and sexuality, NARM, self-confidence, self-esteem
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Enmeshed is NOT Attuned and Enmeshed is NOT Healthy
People with the aspects of the Autonomy Survival Style do not trust themselves. They struggle to set internal boundaries and they struggle to understand how they can be loved if they make room for their own needs. They over-function in … Continue reading
Primal Need Four: Autonomy
This is another post in the series that has been really hard for me to write. It addresses one of my core survival styles, one I am proud to say I am pretty sure I haven’t passed on to my younger boys, … Continue reading
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Tagged children, guilt, helicopter parents, heller, lapierre, NARM, Neuroaffective Model, over-protecting, Procrastination, too good
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The Reality of The Trust Survival Style
We’ve all been deluded at some stage, whether it be by a friend or a lover, a family member or an acquaintance. Some people just seem to magically draw us in and we imagine they are something they are not. … Continue reading
Primal Need Three: Trust
This is the next part in a series, which began here: Preventing Our Children From Developing Demons (And Healing Our Own). The need to trust can be abused by parents with their own agendas. The resultant children have personalities that … Continue reading
Addressing Attunement Needs, When We’re the Grown-Ups
This is the next part in the series that begins here: Preventing Our Children From Developing Demons (And Healing Our Own). Rather than talk about people with Attunement Needs being a separate group (taking the lovely Laura’s comments on board from … Continue reading
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Tagged aline lapierre, attunement, childhood, laurence heller, peter levine, rori raye, self-help, therapy, trauma
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Reconnecting Part Two
Here’s the next part in the series that began here: Preventing Our Children From Developing Demons (And Healing Our Own). Please remember these things as you move through the information in this post: 1. A key to the NeuroAffective Relational Model is … Continue reading
Reconnecting Part One
If you’re new here, this is part four of a series that begins here: Preventing Our Children From Developing Demons (And Healing Our Own). In order to protect the essential relationship with our parents, those of us with a Connection … Continue reading
Primal Need One: Connection
There is so much to say, it’s difficult to know where to begin! This post is Part Three of a series discussing the book, Healing Developmental Trauma, that begins here: Preventing Our Children From Developing Demons (And Healing Our Own). … Continue reading
Parents: 5 Key Tasks of Parenting
This post is part two of a series, which begins here: Preventing Our Children From Developing Demons (And Healing Our Own), in which I look at the ideas outlined in the book, Healing Developmental Trauma by Laurence Helller, PhD and … Continue reading
