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Why Stoics and Perfectionists CAN’T Bedshare with their Kids

Posted on 17/03/2011 by Karyn @ kloppenmum

There has been a bit of a conversation over at lifewithgoblins blog about bedsharing. You can check it out here. And so I thought it might be a good time to throw some of my ideas into the mix. Ones built … Continue reading →

Posted in For Adults, Home Environment, Parenting Styles, Parenting Tricks, Self-Esteem? | Tagged attachment, becoming attached, bed share, behaviour, child, children, co-sleeping, communication, daniel goleman, daniel siegel, emotion, emotional brain, emotional intelligence, family, joseph le doux, kids, maturity, nurturing limit, overwhelmed, parenting, parenting styles, parenting theory, perfectionist, personality theory, psychology, raise, robert karen, self-assurance, self-assured, self-esteem, sociology, stoic, stress, sue gerhardt, the developing mind, understand people, why love matters | 38 Comments
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