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Over-Protective Paret? Try This…

If we were all aware of our parenting style, and if we could always be conscious of our automated reactions to our children (and avoid/correct/respond more helpfully) – wouldn’t life be so much easier? Sigh. Our brains are built to make mistakes, … Continue reading

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Parents: Allow your Children to Manage their OWN Risk

Alongside Mr Hare using his abilities in Executive Function last Friday, (Executive Function – A Story) there was also an aspect of managed risk in the scenario. Mr Owl (age six) decided to tag along for the ride and took his … Continue reading

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Parents: Free Play Matters – Mindful Disconnection – Pt Six

After all the discussion about toxic people vs great people having toxic moments in a recent post, I’m ready for something a little less heavy! (As great as it was to having everyone’s input.) While this isn’t the post I … Continue reading

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Mr Owl Turned Six

I feel like I’ve been saying, the Owl is nearly six, for a long time. And now here we are, the big event has now been and gone. He had an Almost Overnight Party. I got the idea from Carrie at The … Continue reading

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Trust – Part One

About a year ago, the Hare started taking longer bike rides. Not just around the small block, the medium block or the big block: he wanted to stretch his wings a little more. The first few times he was great: he went, … Continue reading

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Parents Please: Provide the Facts not the Horoscope

“Look out,” she screamed, “you’re going to fall and bang your head, and then it will crack open,and blood will go everywhere, and it’ll really hurt and I can’t cope when you’re hurt, and it’ll be a huge mess to clean up, and … Continue reading

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The Academic Panic: Are you part of it?

Do you constantly organise activities for your children?  Do you complete your children’s homework, so they can get a good grade? Did you teach your child to read, or solve maths equations before they got to school, because you wanted them to … Continue reading

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Signs of Great Parenting: Babies and Toddlers

(Firstly, don’t panic. Often being a good-enough parent is good enough. The information is indicative of things going really well, if it doesn’t match your children - consider how you might make small changes rather than feeling guilty and doing nothing, or dismissing the information out … Continue reading

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Toys that enhance Intelligence

For a while now some people have been making vast amounts of money by selling educational products – mostly electronic or battery operated. The implicit promise being that success in school (or with computers et al) will somehow transfer to … Continue reading

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Self-Assured Children and Managed Risk

Real life is about managing risk. Not avoiding it. Yet every day we all encounter people overcome with anxiety at the mere thought of making a mistake; being hurt; embarrassing themselves; or getting IT wrong.  (Whatever IT is.) Maybe, we’re one of them. … Continue reading

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