Tag Archives: children

Dealing with Bitchiness and Nasty Sarcasm

Bitchiness and Nasty Sarcasm, like any lashing out or meanness, are signs of sorrow and pain, or frustration, or not wanting to face a reality that doesn’t fit with current personal paradigms. The first key, for the person on the … Continue reading

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TANTRUMS: Helping Kids When They Dig Themselves Into A Hole

All relationships go through times of emotional disconnection. This is natural and normal and part of being one human living with other humans. When our children tantrum, whatever the reason, these are times when they feel disconnected from us. Sometimes … Continue reading

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TANTRUMS: I HATE YOU!!

So Kloppenmum-ers, where do you fit on the scale of 1 to 10 (1 being least upset, 10 being most) when your children tell you that they hate you? When someone tells us they hate us they are telling us … Continue reading

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Children CAN Manage ‘Danger’

My latest at World Moms Blog. If you’re a ‘safety first’ person, probably best not to read it! http://www.worldmomsblog.com/2013/09/02/new-zealand-dangerous-behaviours/

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Ezine – Quick Way to Stop Children Fussing

This is a summary of the Boring Cuddles strategy. It really does work like magic – when we keep our own agendas out of the way. Sigh. Parenting. http://ezinearticles.com/?Quick-Way-To-Stop-Children-Fussing&id=6971317

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PUNISHMENT: What it IS, What it ISN’T and Why Some of Us Might Need to Get Over Ourselves

We are built with some innate drives and beliefs: food is good and we need to eat it, is a common one. But most of our brain systems are not developed at birth – the way they form depends on … Continue reading

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Census Fun over at World Moms Blog

You can click here: http://www.worldmomsblog.com/2013/04/03/zealand-census-day/

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